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An independent person who is usually able to handle things in a self-sufficient manner, which draws people to her! But that's not the only thing. She is a smart person who is more able to understand complex concepts than many other people do. She’s a reliable and dependable person whom others can usually count on, too. She has a deep desire to be kind and fair to others since she fears cruelty. She is more susceptible than others to being overwhelmed by emotions — both hers and others'. Her unusually empathic nature is a result of her natural sensitivity to others' pain, and her desire to help them avoid it. She has an optimistic nature thus sees the best in the people around her. Because she’s not one to be overly judgmental, others usually seek out her company when they need a friend to talk to. People close to her heart likely know that she cares deeply about the inner lives of others and can listen to what they have to say without imposing her views on them.

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Thursday, December 30, 2004

Communication

Your speech is a direct link to your emotions. Change one and you'll change the other. Your internal "self-talk" directly affects your expectations, and your expectations govern the way you act.

You cannot speak in a negative manner and productively focus on what needs to get done at the same time.

If you want to think and feel more powerfully, then learn to SPEAK in a way that reflects positive and powerful feelings.

A high commitment suggests you are an inspiration to everyone you meet. Your upbeat conversations with others are a natural expression of your optimistic attitude. Even when you feel less than cheerful, you know you can increase your own enthusiasm by expressing a more positive attitude—both in what you say and how you say it. Fully aware of the impact your attitude has on others, you take care in presenting a positive impression.

Far from faking enthusiasm, you focus on the positive possibilities. This skill is one of the qualities that makes you an inspiring leader and fun to be around.

A lack of commitment suggests you are someone who walks around in a cloud of gloom. Your most common discussions focus on fearful concerns rather than enthusiasm for the future. When speaking with others, a criticism comes up in conversation more quickly than a compliment. As a matter of fact, it's uncommon for you to even give compliments.
You know your speech has a direct effect on others, but it's rare that you overcome your negative feelings to a point where you can inspire others to overcome theirs. The big question: WHY?

The bottom line?

What is, and is not possible, is a function of your belief system. Improve your self-talk, and you not only gain self-confidence, but others are inspired and also gain confidence when they talk with you. You enlighten and empower your future.

However, when you permit a negative attitude to color your circumstances, your future grows darker, because you cut off the positive flow of positive energy to it.

So, this week, simply start listening to what you say... and how you say it. Nothing is more important to your future than your belief in what's possible. In a way, it's what you can talk yourself into!


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